Hi all, The wife and I are about to adopt our first two children, a 9 year girl and her 11 year old brother. Um, neither my wife and I have any children that we know of so this is going to be our first adventure in being parents. Toss into the equation that my wife and I are white and our two children are African American and you can tell that this is going to be one heck of an interesting ride. We meet them on Friday for the first time. They are coming home with us for the weekend. Then they will head back to their foster homes. I really have no clue what to expect. I know that what ever happens, life will no longer be the same. There is no more "I" or "we". Once scary ass concept. If you got any tips you want to share, feel free to share. If you have any advice, please advise. Mostly, I think I am just going to share my experiences with you. The good and the bad. Two more nights of ... just the wife and I. Life gets more interesting soon.