Rape/Sexual Assault Culture

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  1. yossarian

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    You're an attorney, or at least I'm fairly sure I recall you being an attorney, so I know you're aware of this, but for the sake of others reading this the sort of due process you're talking about here is purely procedural in the Goldberg or Roth sense of that rule, so teachers like you're mentioning might have a due process right to an admin hearing of some sort that would prevent them from being permanently suspended/fired based only upon an allegation but often they're temporarily suspended until such hearing. Would you agree?

    The last sentence, though, I'm not sure what you're saying exactly because an evidentiary burden is different than procedural due process. I assume you mean just that an accusation should be tested, so to speak, via whatever procedural due process is required and not that there should necessarily be more evidence than just an accusation?
     
  2. The Jitty Slitter

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    #6977 The Jitty Slitter, Feb 13, 2018
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    Katie Roiphe is a troll who wanted to dox a vulnerable woman - then lied about it.

    The actual basis of the Roiphe fiasco was a list of alleged dangerous men shared between women that went viral. Roiphe wanted to dox the list creator (who in practice merely set up the google spreadsheet).

    For this Roiphe was ripped on twitter.

    It never had anything to do with women accusing innocent men in public

    It was on the level of "watch out for this editor because if you get drunk with him - he'll assault you"

    which is in fact what women have been doing in the workplace since for ever

    At my first job, there was a guy all the female solicitors were warned about.

    No elevators. No late work with him on your own.
     
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  3. The Jitty Slitter

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    #6978 The Jitty Slitter, Feb 13, 2018
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    To be clear I was speaking specifically of "presumption of innocence" which is a legal burden of proof requiring that the burden is always on the prosecution to prove guilt.

    People like Atwood are completely misguided that "presumption of innocence" has any application to women warning each other about dangerous men at the office for example. (The Roiphe fiasco).

    Of course I agree that we should not presume guilt without the correct criminal process - but individuals and organisations correctly make risk assessments based on the information they have to hand - and of course with reference to employment law.

    Especially (seeing she specifically raised it) the burden and nature of proof is completely different in criminal trials than in civil proceedings. And different again in quasi-legal administrative type proceedings for employers

    So especially when employers have duties to keep other employees safe, you may well be suspended or sacked even when the "presumption of innocence" standard is nowhere near met.

    Or you may find yourself arrested and rotting on remand based on a "mere allegation" - if it is sufficiently credible.

    This is why I feel the presumption of innocence is in no way helpful to the kind of discussion
     
  4. Potowmack

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    My point is that teachers have whatever protections their CBA grants them when it comes to charges of misconduct. Generally speaking, this involves significantly greater protections than most people have in the private sector. Sure, that leads to abuses sometimes, where it's tough to get rid of an underperforming teacher. But, the flip side of that is that teachers can't be (easily) kicked to the curb as part of a witch hunt.

    My general point is that we seem to be entering a climate where an accusation is enough to end someone's career. We've seen people brought down by little more than accusations on Twitter, with no ability to defend themselves. It's one thing to want police and other authorities to investigate accusations of sexual misconduct in a professional, serious manner. It's quite another to create a climate where the accused is presumed guilty.

    My personal approach is that, if I don't know the accused or the accuser, I tend to reserve judgment until there are significant number of facts available.
     
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  5. The Jitty Slitter

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    Ha!

    And yet I also had the opposite experience at school. Everyone kid starting was warned off a particular teacher who was known as "fruity" (it was an all boys school).

    Years later he was suddenly sacked and never spoken of again to avoid bad publicity. Because these things were always swept under the carpet.
     
  6. The Jitty Slitter

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    Completely agree - protections vary depending on where you work.

    But also, some organisations have greater obligations than others to provide a safe environment.

    The risk assessment is difficult.

    The trouble is, that the evidence will so often be in the form of an accusation and not more.

    And surely we can keep our mind open about innocence, while managing risk?

    Recently in Hamburg a swim coach was accused by several kids of abuse

    In my mind you'd be negligent as a parent to allow your child to spend time under the sole supervision of that coach once the news broke.
     
  7. The Jitty Slitter

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    They are idiots. I am talking about accusations of abuse. And when i went to school these kinds of stories were common place. Indeed various friends who were at 3 of the famous boys single sex schools had guys sacked during our 5 years there. Only one went to prison - the catholic one :ROFLMAO:

    Agreed - but it comes down to the veracity of the allegation and any supporting evidence.

    But personally, I think at my school of 1100 boys, it was insanity to have a teacher there who was widely regarded as a kiddie fiddler. We all knew to watch out for him. eventually he was sacked under a cloud. Even if he was innocent (unlikely IMO) is the risk to 1100 kids worth it?

    Of course it is more complicated than that because based on my own personal knowledge - i am sure credible incidents were covered up over years.

    How it worked in those days is you would quietly resign.
     
  8. The Jitty Slitter

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    Roiphe is in no way someone we should be basing our arguments on

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  9. taosjohn

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    Time was-- my time in school that is-- when a newbie was showing warmth towards a hitter two or three more experienced women would make a point of bumping into her in the ladies room, usually in sucession, and saying "bn"-- short for "bad news." Every one knew what it meant, and most people respected and appreciated the warning. Of course it was abused occasionally, and of course the guys who got themselves ostracized then blamed their anger issues on the coldness of women in general; but still, it worked fairly well...
     
  10. Auriaprottu

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    There was a guy who used to sub in the schools when I was in HS who had subtly hit on some guys. We all knew to avoid him, skip class if we knew he was there, just to avoid being in the same room with him. Somebody beat his ass to sleep one day, literally. He was laying on the floor unconscious. To this day I don't know who it was, but dude had it coming.

    We also had a coach/algebra teacher who was "seeing" a student (they later married). To the best of my knowledge, she was legal at the time, but I still find it questionable in the workplace.
     
  11. taosjohn

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    I've never gotten this, at all. I sort of want people to want to have sex with me-- I don't see why I should get all hostile just because one of them isn't female.

    I mean, it can be a bit awkward sometimes, but everybody's just trying to get by, and good will and honesty will usually get everybody out with dignity.

    Of course a teacher student situation has a different dimension of complication, but a beating doesn't actually simplify it. In fact if the beatee dies, it can get real complicated in a hurry.
     
  12. Auriaprottu

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    There was a poster here called Nick 78 (or 79, can't recall which) who said pretty much exactly that. I'm not sure I agree, but I'm not the one who beat this guy up- most of us just didn't show for class when we knew he was the sub. To the best of my knowledge, nobody ever found out who it was. I can say for sure that I don't know.

    It's not good will or dignified for a grown man to be scoping boys in what should be a safe environment.

    I should say it does. HS isn't filled with adults- most of us were minors.
    My guess is, dude actually tried something physical, or went waaay out of line verbally. In any case, he didn't die.
     
  13. Q*bert Jones III

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    I haven't ever and wouldn't ever catcall a woman because I was raised by humans. But I would be absolutely thrilled if some woman (or man) catcalled me.
     
  14. Jazzy Altidore

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    Can't help myself--all "due process" should be "purely procedural"--hence the term due process.
     
  15. yossarian

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    Gotcha, well you can take it up with the Supreme Court, but as I'm sure you know, I added that qualifier to distinguish it from substantive due process, which rightly or wrongly is a legal principle that courts employ.
     
  16. The Jitty Slitter

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    Sure - this is the classic "whisper network"

    Interestingly I got some of the same info from my supervisor at the firm as well. It was not only women spread the info.
     
  17. soccernutter

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    You know how I stand on this issue of sexual harassment/rape, so I should also tell you that I was accused by a fellow teacher...out of envy/jealousy at my ability to work with students. Students would routinely ask to be moved into my classroom, but students are also not the go-to for answers such as these. The adults in the room are the ones believed, normally, unless it is to accuse teachers of something, specially sexual abuse. Yet, there I was, accused (not of sexual abuse, but of some nebulous inappropriate relationship with female students). It was fortunate that I had built a reputation, and when I was speaking with the VP at the end of the school day, she was stunned. Still, HR had a conversation with me.

    You are talking about sacrificing an actual innocent person. Had I been fired to protect some image ("children"), I would likely have never been able to teach again.
     
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  18. soccernutter

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    I think you are talking about public school/unionized teachers, yes?
     
  19. yossarian

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    I was going with the example provided by the poster to whom I responded. I'm well aware that at-will employees often are deemed entitled to even less due process.
     
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  20. taosjohn

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    Thing is, if you are male and you do it, the woman you tell it to has to consider the possibility that you are just trying to spike the other guys chances to enhance your own-- there's simply too obvious an ulterior motive.

    I have had some success jolting coworkers expressing the old "he was just under pressure, it was a one time thing, he'll never do it again, I'm sticking by him" line into a different track by pointing out that that is their decision to make, but it does move them into a demographic with half the life expectancy.

    For some reason that seems to come off as avuncular where preventive warnings seem kinda like cartoons; puffing their chest out, offering a daisy and pointing to themselves-- hard to tell Popeye from Bluto, and Olive never was a good judge...
     
  21. soccernutter

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    There are an awful lot of people who "forget" that private school and many (most?) charter school teachers are not unionized.
     
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  22. Dr. Wankler

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    Hey, a building I walk by on my way to work every day made this thread ... by way of the New York Times...

    https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/16/...l-abuse.html&eventName=Watching-article-click


    Six correction officers and one former officer have been charged with sexually abusing female inmates, some for more than a decade, at a long-troubled county prison in Pennsylvania, the authorities said on Thursday.

    The seven men created a culture of fear and coerced sex inside the Lackawanna County Prison in Scranton, using their positions of power over the inmates to force them into sexual acts in cells and utility closets, officials said.

    The sexual abuse was common and widely known within the prison, where guards alerted one another if supervisors were coming while they were having sex, Josh Shapiro, the state’s attorney general, said.....
    ....


    Mr. Shapiro said the state’s investigation remained open and hinted that investigators were looking into whether Lackawanna County officials ignored the abuse allegations.

    “Whenever you see this kind of scope, whenever you see this kind of pervasive culture that was allowed to exist, you have to wonder how far up the chain this goes,” Mr. Shapiro said. “I want this community to know we are continuing to work to answer that question.”
    [/indent2

    Well, that explains why the AG's office had the street closed about 2 months ago, with about fifty car/van loads of agents going in and out of the prisons office.​
     
  23. Auriaprottu

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    http://www.todaysvirals.com/news/texas-teen-faces-32-years-prison-lying-raped-3-black-men/

    She will walk.
     
  24. ceezmad

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    Old school #metoo
     
  25. Cascarino's Pizzeria

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    Steve Wynn allegations get more serious:

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    LAS VEGAS — A woman told police she had a child with casino mogul Steve Wynn after he raped her, while another reported she was forced to resign from a Las Vegas job after she refused to have sex with him.

    The Associated Press on Tuesday obtained copies of police reports recently filed by the two women about allegations dating to the 1970s. Police in Las Vegas revealed earlier this month that they had taken the statements after a news report in January revealed sexual misconduct allegations against the billionaire.

    https://nypost.com/2018/02/27/woman-tells-police-she-gave-birth-to-child-after-steve-wynn-raped-her/
     

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