Condolences to our friend Chris

Discussion in 'Columbus Crew' started by hardhead, Aug 30, 2019.

  1. Ch(Elsey)

    Ch(Elsey) Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    May 2, 2003
    Green, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Chris.

    Our thoughts are with you today.



    edit: My folks' favorite song from our many years of mass:
    "And He will raise you up on eagle's wings,
    Bear you on the breath of dawn.
    Make you to shine like the sun,
    And hold you in the palm of His Hand."
     
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  2. Big J 0526

    Big J 0526 Member+

    Columbus Crew SC
    United States
    Sep 8, 2010
    Columbus, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    This is the song, for those of us who weren't brought up/are currently christian.
     
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  3. stanger

    stanger BigSoccer Supporter

    Nov 29, 2008
    Columbus
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Just catching up...

    I cannot imagine. Just looked at all the pictures and the rest.

    Give your kids a extra squeeze tonight. You just simply never know.

    As everyone else has said way more eloquently than I ever could, whatever you need @chr1st, let us know.
     
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  4. TKyle

    TKyle Moderator
    Staff Member

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    Dec 28, 2014
    Nordecke’s Porch
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    This was a hymn sung at my wife's father's funeral. To this day, my wife tears up when it is sung at mass.

    May you find comfort and solace, Chris.
     
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  5. Ch(Elsey)

    Ch(Elsey) Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    May 2, 2003
    Green, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Quick update.

    Straight from the realest fan, his son was released from the hospital. In the process of recuperation.
     
  6. TRUJDUB

    TRUJDUB Member+

    Nov 22, 2015
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Would be really nice if we could have some involvement with the Crew doing some things for the family during this very difficult time
     
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  7. Ch(Elsey)

    Ch(Elsey) Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    May 2, 2003
    Green, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Yes. I hope so.
     
  8. Grouchy

    Grouchy Member+

    Evil
    Apr 18, 1999
    Canal Winchester
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Thank you for the update.

    Good news is always welcome.

    All thoughts of good will to their families and everyone else who has suffered tragic loss recently.
     
  9. Ch(Elsey)

    Ch(Elsey) Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    May 2, 2003
    Green, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Yes. Appreciate it when you get it.
     
  10. kgilbert78

    kgilbert78 Member+

    Borussia Mönchengladbach
    United States
    Dec 28, 2006
    Cowlumbus, OH
    Club:
    Borussia Mönchengladbach
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
  11. Ch(Elsey)

    Ch(Elsey) Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    May 2, 2003
    Green, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
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  12. DrunkandDisorderly

    Mar 17, 2008
    Columbus
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  13. DrunkandDisorderly

    Mar 17, 2008
    Columbus
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    Columbus Crew
    Yep.
     
  14. Ch(Elsey)

    Ch(Elsey) Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    May 2, 2003
    Green, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    @chr1st ’s wife posted an update. I hope the funds can help your families begin to rebuild and create great family memories. All our love!
     
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  15. CybrSlydr

    CybrSlydr Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    Jun 30, 2013
    Casper, WY
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Hope things are progressing well for the families.
     
  16. RunSudoSane

    RunSudoSane Member

    Nov 3, 2011
    All the best thoughts and love to the families.

    And, thank you all for keeping this a place that brings out the best the beautiful game can offer, when it's needed. We are the game. The game is all of us.

    Below is lyrics to a song written for two high school soccer players who passed much too soon, also in a tragic accident, and more recently, a close friend's son who was taken by the horror that is the opioid crisis. A link to a very poorly sung version of the song is below the lyrics. I'm a writer, not a singer.


    The Window Shatters


    Your stand by the window, unable to move, but wanting to try
    Afraid of cold space where soul’s yearning resides
    Think back to the rain falling pure through the sky
    You were fearless and free, not stripped by life’s lies
    Not stripped by life’s lies


    Open the window, the rain starts again
    It pools on the floor, each drop your lost friend
    Outside as the rain, face turned to the clouds,
    Your friend’s sharing your pain, in the silence so loud


    But he’s more than drops or ocean unbound
    He is loving words for a soul’s broken sound
    He’s helping hands for those in need
    And a silent vessel hearing painful deeds
    He is still all of these, but so much more
    And will forever be in life’s infinite sea


    Because, you touched his being, and he spread your love
    To each person he met, like a tender dove
    And somewhere between flesh and memory, is the courage to swim
    In deep ocean of fear and heart’s fire gone dim


    If you reach through the window, the drops will not burn
    They’re my shimmering soul, take hold, don’t let go


    Together again, we run down the street
    To the park where we played, our fear we can meet
    In daylight’s last gasp, we fall to the ground
    Laughing at the dreams dancing all around
    You push me on the swing and I fly higher than the moon
    Tag, you’re it, we’ll never leave too soon


    Care’s hand gripping mine, we race shadow and light
    Faster and faster, until heart’s fire ignites
    Under sweltering trees, as out hearts beat as one
    I remind you of love, and you recapture your son


    Because, you touched my being, and I spread your love
    To each person I met, like a tender dove
    And somewhere between us, flesh and memory, is the courage to swim
    In deep ocean of fear and heart’s fire gone dim
    For bound together, we will ever return
    To belief and trust so lovingly earned


    (Spoken Word)
    (Darkness arrives and the window’s still closed
    Your fingers touch glass, heart wanting to flow
    Still afraid of cold space where soul’s yearning resides
    I am falling forever, streaming hand on the pain
    Our fear is failing, washing away as my rain
    I reach for a stone, raise it high in the storm…)


    Because, you touched my being, and I spread your love
    To each person I met, like a tender dove
    And somewhere between us, flesh and memory, is the courage to swim
    In deep ocean of fear and heart’s fire gone dim
    For bound together, we will ever return
    To belief and trust so lovingly earned


    (Spoken Word)
    (The window shatters…)

     
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  17. Ch(Elsey)

    Ch(Elsey) Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    May 2, 2003
    Green, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Yes. The best I can wish for Chris and his family is that they have the best Christmastime in light of the tragedy they have suffered this year. Our hearts and thoughts, @chr1st.
     
  18. Dan Milton

    Dan Milton Member

    Nov 25, 1998
    Almost all my time at Mass was in the days of Latin being used as the language of the Mass. Although I did take two years of Latin in high school,I was far from fluent in Latin! The addition of English,quitars and shaking hands did not strengthen my desire to attend Mass!
     
  19. DGA57v2

    DGA57v2 Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    Apr 1, 2019
    Although this thread was created for @chr1st and his families for the tragedy they went through, we also have the Guzman family, also good Crew supporters, who lost two kids in a traffic accident last week. Let the spirit of Christmas provide some peace to all three families affected this year.
     
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  20. kgilbert78

    kgilbert78 Member+

    Borussia Mönchengladbach
    United States
    Dec 28, 2006
    Cowlumbus, OH
    Club:
    Borussia Mönchengladbach
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    You probably ran into my cousin's book then.... "Wheelock's Latin"
     
  21. Ch(Elsey)

    Ch(Elsey) Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    May 2, 2003
    Green, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Hey Chris.

    We still miss you around here. Our nation turns its lonely eyes to you.
     
  22. Big J 0526

    Big J 0526 Member+

    Columbus Crew SC
    United States
    Sep 8, 2010
    Columbus, Ohio
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    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Have you, or anybody else on here, talked to him recently?
     
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  23. Ch(Elsey)

    Ch(Elsey) Member+

    Columbus Crew
    United States
    May 2, 2003
    Green, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Thinking of you and your family in the upcoming days, Chris.
     
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  24. Big J 0526

    Big J 0526 Member+

    Columbus Crew SC
    United States
    Sep 8, 2010
    Columbus, Ohio
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    jesus, its been almost a year. im sure it must feel like only yesterday for you @chr1st . we still love you and are still thinking of you!
     
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  25. chr1st

    chr1st Member+

    Jan 19, 2011
    Dayton
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    This isn't nearly enough but thank you. All of you.

    Despite all the suffering, I cannot adequately express how much comfort and joy this community has brought me over these last two years. Thank you, thank you, thank you for all the support each and every one of you has given to the Jasko and McBride families.

    I love y'all.
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