We lost a '96er today

Discussion in 'D.C. United' started by Abner Ravenwood, Feb 27, 2020.

  1. Abner Ravenwood

    Jul 21, 2004
    Last seen in Nepal
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    He sat to my left for 24 years, and stood behind me for 51. He was my dad, and I'm going to miss him. His name was George Souza (AKA @12th Man). He was an avid consumer of BigSoccer, but an infrequent poster. We dressed him up in his OG black '96 jersey for when they came to pick him up this afternoon, and the rest of our squad is probably still going to the opener on Saturday. Because that's what he'd want.

    So if you're going to be there, drink one for him. If you're not going to be there, also drink one for him. If you don't drink, let me know, and I'll drink an extra in your place. I've already gotten a head start.

    Vamos DC.
     
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  2. GumbyG

    GumbyG Member+

    DC United
    Mar 22, 2007
    Chesapeake, VA
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Gutted for you, AR. Thanks for sharing the news. Better days behind and ahead, but the DCU family is poorer today for his loss. Salty beer is the worst beer.
     
  3. Winoman

    Winoman Drinkin' Wine Spo-De-O-De!

    Jul 26, 2000
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Thanks for posting, @Abner Ravenwood. Sincere condolences from the Winoman family to your family. We will offer a toast to George at the 12th minute mark.

    RIP George. :(
     
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  4. Bootsy Collins

    Bootsy Collins Player of the Year

    Oct 18, 2004
    Capitol Hill
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Well crap.

    I'm sorry you lost him, but I'm glad that you had him. Thanks for posting this.

    I'll drink one for him; but that doesn't mean you shouldn't drink an extra in my place.
     
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  5. ImNumberTen

    ImNumberTen Member+

    Oct 4, 2007
    Washington, DC
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I'm really, really sorry for you and your family. Losing a beloved parent is a massive life moment. Even though we know it's the way of things that doesn't make it any easier.

    Hang in there. Grief is a process.
     
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  6. Q*bert Jones III

    Q*bert Jones III The People's Poet

    Feb 12, 2005
    Woodstock, NY
    Club:
    DC United
    Oh, man, I'm so sorry. Hang in there.
     
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  7. dcu n bntwn

    dcu n bntwn Member

    Jun 7, 2004
    Watertown, MA
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Condolences.
    I'll drink for him and your family on the 12 th minute.

    Stay strong.
     
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  8. PSURoss

    PSURoss Member+

    Sep 30, 2002
    DC Burbs
    I am sorry for your loss. I hope you'll find comfort in DCU games.
     
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  9. griffin1108

    griffin1108 BigSoccer Supporter

    Dec 5, 2003
    Virginia
    So sorry. My wife just buried her Mom last week. She was 91 but it never makes it easier. RIP Mr. Souza and I'll hoist a few in your honor on Saturday. Vamos United.
     
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  10. fatbastard

    fatbastard Member+

    Aug 1, 2003
    Lincoln (ish), Va
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Ah man, so very sorry for your loss. That's gotta be tough.

    We will pour one out for your dad during the game and toast his fandom and his life (and hoist another one for his son!).



    @griffin1108 Please give Mrs1108 a big hug from Lisa and I.
     
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  11. Aconti2

    Aconti2 Member

    Apr 10, 2011
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    So sorry for your loss.
     
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  12. TowsonDad

    TowsonDad BigSoccer Supporter

    Oct 1, 2006
    Alexandria, VA
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Sorry for your loss AR. We will be thinking of you and your dad at the game. We'll drink one for him.
     
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  13. Hedbal

    Hedbal Member+

    Jul 31, 2000
    DC
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    So sorry - I'll raise a cup.
     
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  14. dadman

    dadman Yo soy un papa

    DC United
    United States
    Apr 13, 2001
    Reston, VA
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I'll be at home with the kids and grand kids, but I won't open my bottle until the twelfth minute in memory and honor of your dad, good sir.

    I won't post it here, but when you're ready for another really good cathartic cry, I recommend Steve Goodman's "My Old Man".
     
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  15. jmnva

    jmnva Member

    Feb 10, 2007
    Arlington, VA
    Club:
    DC United
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    I will have one in the 12th minute in his memory
     
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  16. bigredfutbol

    bigredfutbol Moderator
    Staff Member

    Sep 5, 2000
    Woodbridge, VA
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    My belated condolences.

    I'm stuck @ work today; I will send a silent salute at the 12th minute. If any of you can hoist a drink on my behalf, please do so.
     
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  17. Doogh

    Doogh Member+

    Oct 5, 2019
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    My condolences, wishing well of you and your family in this time of loss.
     
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  18. Etch10

    Etch10 Member

    Apr 10, 2009
    Club:
    DC United
    Joining with this, prayers for you all.
     
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