Then don't show up for the games, find an excuse or a soft injury...anything. But to do what Dest did is totally inappropriate, a total lack of respect for his teammates to put them in that position. If you have pegged Dest's attitude correctly, he shouldn't play for the US ever again. We can all trash the coach however you want, but you don't disrespect the country you represent and the teammates you are playing with like that. The yellow was silly, but the red was just petulant and ridiculous, there is no excuse for that -- none. Agree that an apology to the team is needed, frankly I wouldn't want him back for the next window at all. But I don't see how the team is connected to each other on a daily basis -- at the very least Dest owes his teammates an apology. And quite frankly, the fans as well. Just terrible.