Things we See

Discussion in 'Referee' started by DefRef, Jun 17, 2019.

  1. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Because they all knew that they weren't supposed to be there for the handshake in the first place.
     
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  2. MetroFever

    MetroFever Member+

    Jun 3, 2001
    Club:
    New York Red Bulls
    Nat'l Team:
    Croatia
    One of my other takes, which no one brought up, is that they left the CR alone amid that mess.

    Their defense is "Well, we told him let's go" (you can see one of the AR's wave to him to say let's split) but he stayed.
     
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  3. MetroFever

    MetroFever Member+

    Jun 3, 2001
    Club:
    New York Red Bulls
    Nat'l Team:
    Croatia
    You're giving them too much credit. :)
     
  4. BTFOOM

    BTFOOM Member+

    Apr 5, 2004
    MD, USA
    Club:
    FC Bayern München
    This is what I really don't get at all. This wasn't just a few 'handbags and mouthing off', it was nearly a full out brawl, with players physically contacting each other (and a few adults). This is certainly a reportable issue. So, why not just simply state what you saw, say it happened while your were leaving and you witnessed it from afar, tell the State that you were leaving, and that is all. Instead, they (should) face some sort of sanction for lying and trying to cover it up.
     
  5. MetroFever

    MetroFever Member+

    Jun 3, 2001
    Club:
    New York Red Bulls
    Nat'l Team:
    Croatia
    Because in the officiating world in the modern era, honesty is rarely the best policy. Long gone are the days where you can call an assignor on the way home and be told off the record that you could have handled things better.

    In their mind, if they tell the truth, the assignor might not give them equivalent matches in the future since the belief would be "they lost control of the match".

    I am sure they believed that the cameras stopped recording at the final whistle. They would never imagine they'd be captured walking off with a bottle in hand as if they just left a beach while this is going on.

    There are no sanctions because they broke no NFHS or State rules. County playoff assignments for this week for two of the referees in the video are similar to what they've received in the past.

    The NFHS booklet does not come close to even covering a referees responsibility prior to reaching the parking lot area. The State Officials Handbook does not cover this either. Our state is no different than what others have said here, which is that the Chapters are saying it's ideal to leave once the match is over, but there is nothing in black and white.
     
  6. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    oh yes, I have a letter from New York State saying it in black and white...
     
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  7. Law5

    Law5 Member+

    Mar 24, 2005
    Beaverton OR
    The 'leave immediately' instruction is based on the fact that the schools want to be the ones in charge of what happens at their games. It is the schools' responsibility to deal with all of that stuff. Now we all know that the schools are rarely prepared to deal with stuff like that, but it does fall under their jurisdiction.

    We had a high school boys varsity game a few years ago, cross town rivalry, all Hispanic team v. a roughly half Hispanic team. Student spectators during the game were insulting the latter team's Hispanic players for playing with those Anglos. Game ends. Referees split as the spectators come onto the field to confront the players they felt were traitors for playing against their team. Coach from the home team (I don't remember which team) runs to the parking lot and demands that the referees return to the field to deal with the mass confrontation. They declined. Personally (I wasn't there), I think the coach just wanted an excuse for getting out of the stadium himself.
     
  8. Soccer Dad & Ref

    Oct 19, 2017
    San Diego
    Run Forrest Run
     
  9. BTFOOM

    BTFOOM Member+

    Apr 5, 2004
    MD, USA
    Club:
    FC Bayern München
    Why would they want to go back to that chaos. First, the match is over, so just leave. Second, and more importantly, WFT were they going to do? Card the fans on the field? Don't know if the beatings or wild derision of laughter would have come first. If the AD, any security the home team had, and possibly the home coaching staff couldn't keep the fans away, how were 3 referees supposed to do it? Ask nicely???
     
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  10. MetroFever

    MetroFever Member+

    Jun 3, 2001
    Club:
    New York Red Bulls
    Nat'l Team:
    Croatia
    I'm not Jomboy or a body language expert, but on the video you can see a coach venting and pointing at the direction of where the AR's were walking. I doubt he's talking about a play that happened 20 minutes before. There is a culture among coaches who think we're like NHL referees, where our job is to put our body on the lines and break up fights. They refuse to take responsibility for the actions of their own teens.


    I don't doubt your state does, since you guys are referee friendly and paying $130 a match. Our state does not have anything in writing covering this.
     
  11. the_phoenix612

    Manchester United
    United States
    Sep 13, 2022
    Houston, TX
    cries in Texan
     
  12. MJ91

    MJ91 Member

    United States
    Jan 14, 2019
    My state has made it clear for the past couple of years we are to exit immediately after the final whistle neither participating in nor observing the handshake line.

    In an annual recert clinic they went so far as to imply that if we issued post-game 2nd YC or RC's for anything at us, they might not he honored (standard suspensions) because we "should not have still been there."

    "Okay, but what if we have a JV or girls varsity game starting right after that? Do we go to our cars, wait 15', then come back?"

    Crickets...
     
  13. Pittsburgh Ref

    Pittsburgh Ref Member+

    Oct 7, 2014
    da 'Burgh
    cries in Pennsylvanian
     
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  14. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I live only 4 miles from the Joisey border...c'mon up and join our group...lol
     
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  15. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    there is no crying (for referees) in soccer
     
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  16. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    c'mon up...our traffic here in New Yawk might even be a tad better than in Houston (was there back in March to see my Mets play) and it was only 92 degrees in the shade.
     
  17. Dayton Ref

    Dayton Ref Member+

    May 3, 2012
    Houston, TX
    Club:
    Chicago Fire
    He neglected to think about (or just mention) the fact that we don't pay state taxes...
    There is nothing quite as entertaining without being a distraction as crew members saying things like, "What is this BS!? How do you deal with [the humidity]?" and "Hey I'm not from around here either, this is hot as **** for me too."

    At one point this summer I had a string of 5 games with someone on the crew that said something along the lines of, "F this heat/humidity." Meanwhile I look at an outdoor thermostat and start sweating because my body has adapted.
     
  18. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    oh c'mon my property taxes here are now well over 4x what we paid when we bought the house back in 2001...so I might sell now and move to AUSTIN...l hear it has a pretty good music scene...lol
     
  19. MetroFever

    MetroFever Member+

    Jun 3, 2001
    Club:
    New York Red Bulls
    Nat'l Team:
    Croatia
    Recert? For high school? :confused: I'm guessing you mean outside of the yearly online tests.

    In our area, the local chapters have come up with in-person training and it seems that everyone's heart is in the right place, but the whole thing is dysfunctional. In USSF, states are supposed to have a "Director of Training" or something comparable.

    In high school, there is no such thing so you have on-field sessions where people are getting contradictory advice about positioning and class sessions that turns into old-timers venting at the instructor.
     
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  20. MetroFever

    MetroFever Member+

    Jun 3, 2001
    Club:
    New York Red Bulls
    Nat'l Team:
    Croatia
    I have yet to wear long-sleeves in either USSF or high school matches and we're in mid-October. We've been lucky in this part of the country so far with average temps in the 70's in September.
     
  21. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    haha...today I will break out the long-sleeve (60 degrees for a temperature high) for my big modified (Junior High) soccer match.
     
  22. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    SDI=State Director of Instruction
     
  23. Pittsburgh Ref

    Pittsburgh Ref Member+

    Oct 7, 2014
    da 'Burgh
    So in Pennsylvania...

    Pass one test, one time, get registered as a [sport] official, lather, rinse, repeat.
     
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  24. MJ91

    MJ91 Member

    United States
    Jan 14, 2019
    Yes besides the annual online test, it's an annual mandatory in person meeting for HS that is just PowerPoints of policy & rules changes and the directives du jour from the state. Zero on-field work, it's a combo rules meeting with coaches who must also attend.

    No reason it should not have option to attend remotely, but alas they want everyone to drive to one of the few host sites...

    It's technically not a full recert, but we can't ref that year if we don't attend.
     
  25. Law5

    Law5 Member+

    Mar 24, 2005
    Beaverton OR
    Tuesday night game, 9 p.m. 71 degrees.

    Last night, I wore long sleeves for the second time this season. I was working with a first year high school referee, a woman from Cuba. I loaned her my gloves because her hands were so cold.
     
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