Let's hope you don't also blame Dems for not offering roasted, severed Black toes to the White folks who went Trump... y'know, to appeal to them....
The thing about listening and finding out what they want is bullshit. We know what they want - they want women to be second class citizens, blacks to be less than that, and gays to not exist. I don't want to abandon any of our coalition. If the country is too bigoted and we lose with that coalition, then we lose, but we don't leave anyone behind.
Slow on the uptake... I thought it was the young dude-bros who drank the orange koolaid, but Gen X infected too? Had not seen that, don't believe. Asking for a friend.