Playing at the next level

When i say the next level, for me atleast, i mean college ( a ranking D1) and even further.
Right now I am playing for one of the better teams that ranked regionally on the east coast (top 15) so i have played in the top tournaments (jeff cup, FC DELCO players cup etc..). I am also training w/ a player (4 or 5 days a week) who is 4yrs older than i am, and is going to play at Old Dominion Unniversity(ranked 16th or so in D1) so its not like i am not training on my own. ON top of that i practice w/ my club team 2+ times a week. Now most people that are going to reply to this message are going to ask why i dont play ODP. Well in my state it is super political, and it is all about what your parents have done or who you know. But i have been asked to go to and tryout by teammates and coaches. So my question to all of you is what can i do to make that extra step/effort to get to where i want to be in the long run
Age:14
Position:M/F (starter)


Any help or advice would help me out a lot.
Thanks,
Zizou10