Best Story of the Week - 2026

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  1. Dayton Ref

    Dayton Ref Member+

    May 3, 2012
    Houston, TX
    Club:
    Chicago Fire
    I'm not sure what schedule would have me more tired:
    original schedule U16B assistant, U19B referee, U17B referee 5 minutes from my house or
    current schedule drive 3 hours, Men's AR, drive 3 hours home.

    At least I'll make more off of the 1 game than the three.
     
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  2. the_phoenix612

    Manchester United
    United States
    Sep 13, 2022
    Houston, TX
    Aww, I was looking forward to hearing how you enjoyed the mess LOL
     
  3. Dayton Ref

    Dayton Ref Member+

    May 3, 2012
    Houston, TX
    Club:
    Chicago Fire
    See bad stories...
     
  4. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Darren England
    Getting the call from The Football Association to say I’d been appointed to referee the 2026 FA Cup Final is something I’ll never forget. It’s been an ambition of mine ever since I made the decision to step away from being an Assistant Referee and push myself to reach the very top as a Referee.

    What makes it even more memorable is where I was at the time – on my way to the local tip with a load of garden waste! It definitely wasn’t how I imagined receiving a call like that.

    Looking back, I never imagined that refereeing local games at clubs like Athersley Recreation FC, Houghton Main FC and Worsbrough Bridge Athletic FC would take me on a journey around the world — raising the flag and blowing the whistle in so many different countries.

    To walk out at Wembley on Saturday, leading the teams out with the ball, will be an incredible honour. More than anything, I hope it shows young people that if you work hard, believe in yourself and stay resilient, amazing opportunities can come your way. I’ll be hugely proud to represent referees across the country, on such a big stage.

    I am very lucky to be with a great officiating team, who are not only colleagues but friends.

    None of this happens on your own. I’m so grateful for the support of my wife, children, parents, family and friends – they’ve been there through everything, not just the good moments. To have them there at Wembley will mean the world.
     
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  5. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    JOB-DESCRIPTION-Operations-Coordinator-2026.pdf

    Current vacancies at the Professional Referee Organization:

    Job Title: Operations Coordinator

    Reports to: Manager of Operations

    Salary range: $55K to $65K

    Role: This role will manage and execute various operational and administrative processes that support vital functions of the Professional Referee Organization. The Operations Coordinator is responsible for supporting operational and administrative processes across PRO
     
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  6. soccerref69420

    soccerref69420 Member+

    President of the Antonio Miguel Mateu Lahoz fan cub
    Mar 14, 2020
    Nat'l Team:
    Korea DPR
    Man, that would be cool to work for PRO. I wonder if they accept mentally deficient people.
     
  7. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    How good are you at politics and keeping everyone happy?
     
  8. mathguy ref

    mathguy ref Member+

    Nov 15, 2016
    TX
    Club:
    Manchester United FC
    I’m thinking that posting is missing a “1” in the front of the salary ranges.
     
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  9. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Yeah no, I know quite a few guys who would take that job and work for free.
     
  10. cleansheetbsc

    cleansheetbsc Member+

    Mar 17, 2004
    Club:
    --other--
    I wore zero UnderArmour / cold gear this weekend. That is all.
     
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  11. cleansheetbsc

    cleansheetbsc Member+

    Mar 17, 2004
    Club:
    --other--
    "Referees need not apply"
     
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  12. MetroFever

    MetroFever Member+

    Jun 3, 2001
    Club:
    New York Red Bulls
    Nat'l Team:
    Croatia
    It's unlikely they already don't have someone in mind for that low-paying position.

    FWIW, some folks who took intern positions or low paying gigs with MLS headquarters in NY are doing quite well for themselves now as their networking allowed them to stay with their passion of sports.

    It was great to be out in 85-90 degree weather for 8 games this weekend after the brutal winter we had in the Northeast between the cold and snow. Players and coaches were a joy to work with as we were all happy to finally see nice weather.

    One of the rare weekends I didn't need to consider pulling out rain gear for a game or two.
     
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  13. cleansheetbsc

    cleansheetbsc Member+

    Mar 17, 2004
    Club:
    --other--
    With the exception of my Guinness on Saturday night at the pub 3 blocks from my last match,my hydration for this heat was way off. Drank so much water and LMNT packs after my final match yesterday.
     
  14. soccerref69420

    soccerref69420 Member+

    President of the Antonio Miguel Mateu Lahoz fan cub
    Mar 14, 2020
    Nat'l Team:
    Korea DPR
    I participated in this holiday weekend adult tournament at the coed recreational level. In the very first game Saturday, I would have issued the only red card of the entire tournament if I decided to actually call the DOGSO foul accurately, but my thing is at this level, I will only give a DOGSO if it is a really egregious one. This was one that I would have given in a competitive adult/high level youth match and I don't *think* I would get complaints about it. Best story here because I am happy that I restrained myself.

    Also I saw a number of refs having a decent number of cards in their games (in a few games I was AR for, the CR gave 4 and 5 cards, in only a 30 minute half game), and the only game that almost went off the rails was the one where my CR bafflingly wasn't giving deserved ones. I think the cards really kept the games in check. Even had some people asking my advice on things and to watch them for a bit in my break time regarding the subject.
     
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  15. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Anthony Taylor
    Elite referee (Premier League and International)
    Yesterday saw the 2025/6 season draw to a close and it has given me the chance to reflect on the physical and mental demands that elite match officials have to cope with.

    The importance of ensuring we have both physical and mental resilience, enables us to cope with the rigours of a domestic and international season.

    Now, the focus immediately shifts to final preparations for our departure to the FIFA World Cup 2026.

    A domestic Premier League season is an unrelenting test—managing high-stakes pressure, handling split-second decisions, and continuously dealing with people’s expectations of perfection in addition to our own internal fears of making mistakes.

    As a referee, resilience is our greatest asset. It is what allows us to block out the noise, trust our abilities and command respect in the most volatile environments.

    As the excitement builds for the start of the World Cup, that same resilience will be more critical than ever. Stepping onto the international stage in front of a global audience requires another level of resilience, adaptability, and unwavering focus.

    I’m incredibly proud of what our team has achieved this year and that once again we are representing our country at another World Cup.

    Thank you to all our families, friends and colleagues for all your ongoing love and support.
     
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  16. BTFOOM

    BTFOOM Member+

    Apr 5, 2004
    MD, USA
    Club:
    FC Bayern München
    The bolded part above shows me that you actually care about the game and the players, because a red card in the first game of a tournament (especially for DOGSO or SFP), would likely mean that player is done for the weekend. Pretty harsh for a co-ed rec match. As a former player and coach, I applaud you for that and your temperament in an environment that was as much for adults to have fun and relive their 'younger' days, than it was for all out wins.

    This was always the problem that I had when I coached in tournaments. Some refs are very lenient with their cards, others are way more harsh. The issue - often 2 YC in different matches meant missing the next match. Maybe in a longer league situation this is OK, but telling a teen-aged player and their parents that they won't be able to watch their child play in one out of only 3 matches, usually after significant travel, is really sucky. Tournament about 2 hours from home, girl on my team gets YC for a foul. I have a quick word, but let her stay on. About 5 minutes later, another foul (that that harsh, IMHO), but ref gave second and RC. That's it, Saturday afternoon and no more soccer for her rest of weekend. After that, I always pulled any player who got a YC, no matter why.
     
  17. MetroFever

    MetroFever Member+

    Jun 3, 2001
    Club:
    New York Red Bulls
    Nat'l Team:
    Croatia
    We've had numerous assignors over the years making it clear to be careful prior to issuing a yellow (or red) at these events. It's a nice way of saying, don't bother showing your interest next year if you can't adhere to this request since tournaments are a business and not for player development.
     
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  18. BTFOOM

    BTFOOM Member+

    Apr 5, 2004
    MD, USA
    Club:
    FC Bayern München
    Thanks for the info. Sure, if I'm playing in the seim-finals of the State Cup, I expect strict refereeing (or at least call it as you see it). When my U-13 team is playing in the Hershey Memorial Day Tournament, unless it's violent, call the foul and suggest maybe the player needs a rest. We are there as much to go to Hershey Park Saturday Afternoon as we are to play.
     
  19. msilverstein47

    msilverstein47 Member+

    Jan 11, 1999
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    ha...I am actually old enough to remember when you actually toured the Hershey factory floor itself...it's from a bygone era for sure, meaning that I am ancient history.
     
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