Bad stories

Discussion in 'Referee' started by Law5, Oct 27, 2021.

  1. soccerdad72

    soccerdad72 Member

    Chelsea
    United States
    Apr 5, 2021
    It wasn't the cards themselves that I considered dumb, just the utter lack of situational awareness involved, both my the player and the coaches. At 6-1, your starting center midfielder sitting on a yellow card shouldn't be anywhere near the field. And if you're that player, the last thing you should be doing after multiple warnings is go in for a tackle that late in a game.
     
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  2. Law5

    Law5 Member+

    Mar 24, 2005
    Beaverton OR
    Years ago now, I was doing an ODP tournament. I think it was U14 boys and a player got a 2CT red. He comes off storming about how stupid the referee is, yahda, yahda, yahda. The coach doesn't even look at him as he reaches the bench and says, "You'll learn to play with a caution."
     
  3. socal lurker

    socal lurker Member+

    May 30, 2009
    Sadly, I think in today’s pro game, being on a caution means you get more latitude, not less.
     
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  4. Pittsburgh Ref

    Pittsburgh Ref Member+

    Oct 7, 2014
    da 'Burgh
    Maybe that's why Makkelie has his picture on his card, he's telling himself to watch it
     
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  5. soccerref69420

    soccerref69420 Member+

    President of the Antonio Miguel Mateu Lahoz fan cub
    Mar 14, 2020
    Nat'l Team:
    Korea DPR
    Tonight I had one of the worst referee experiences I have ever had (high school water polo) because my referee partner has an ego so massive he makes Lahoz look like Michael Oliver. Much worse than any high school soccer refereeing experience I have ever had. I had to continually cover my mouth with my hands so that the teams or cameras couldn’t catch me laughing at the absurdity of what I was watching. I’m sure some of you have done duals where the other ref was just taking over and making everything about himself and pissing you off because he was delaying the game and making you look bad since you’re part of his crew? Well this guy was by far the worst case of this I have ever seen on a sports ground
     
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  6. soccerref69420

    soccerref69420 Member+

    President of the Antonio Miguel Mateu Lahoz fan cub
    Mar 14, 2020
    Nat'l Team:
    Korea DPR
    This week I did 4 WP games every night tues-Fri, not getting home until 830-9p except for the debacle Thursday (posted above) which I won’t even expand on. I never experienced burnout or exhaustion in soccer a single time but WP is doing it. You’d think a sport just walking up and down a deck for 4 hours wouldn’t exhaust you compared to running in 2 HS soccer games over the same period but it is. Hell, there have been weekends where I did 4 soccer games over 7.5 hours starting at 9a last game 3p and felt basically fine at the end, nothing like this.

    I’m not even doing any soccer games this weekend, just resting. I woke up this morning at 1030. This is a very humbling experience.
     
  7. gaolin

    gaolin Member

    Apr 21, 2019
    Started a new MLS Next season this weekend. Of course, new system. Modular 11 was fine. It got the job done.

    So many problems starting with... away team has not been able to submit roster. I called the number was told to play anyway and write down everything on the notes section.

    Turns out... you cannot submit anything without rosters. So... had to email....
     
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  8. soccerref69420

    soccerref69420 Member+

    President of the Antonio Miguel Mateu Lahoz fan cub
    Mar 14, 2020
    Nat'l Team:
    Korea DPR
    US Soccer/MLS is actively driving referees away from officiating the most important youth league in the country. Unique and changing crappy websites, crap treatment by players and coaches, crap pay and other financial amenities. It's sad really. When people look at the causes for the referee shortage in America, MLS Next is a great place to see it all encompassed. I hope the referee side of MLS Next starts really falling apart this season with their new website and they actually try to reach out to referees to see what they can do better to make it an environment we actually want to go to.
     
  9. AZOldRef

    AZOldRef Member

    Chelsea
    United States
    Apr 5, 2021
    Struggling with the new MLS Next system myself this evening.

    The comments above about crappy pay - around here MLS Next is the highest paying league. I assume the rates are standard everywhere - $75/50 for 13s/14s, $100/$60 for the olders. Is that true for everyone and are there youth leagues that pay better?

    The treatment by coaches / players ... I believe you and I'm sorry to hear your experience. In these parts I see the opposite, the coaches for the teams here are generally decent to work with. If you screw something up you'll hear about it and you get grumbles about calls but it's usually over with quickly. The coaches in today's set were repeatedly telling their kids to stop complaining and move on.

    Is there anything specific you'd like to see done?
     
  10. soccerref69420

    soccerref69420 Member+

    President of the Antonio Miguel Mateu Lahoz fan cub
    Mar 14, 2020
    Nat'l Team:
    Korea DPR
    Their pay rates are pretty much around or at the top of leagues in my area, yes. But I feel like given the time commitment the league wants (if you take their arrival times seriously), the report writing afterwards (including making new websites that you have to try to figure out), the travel you may have to do to help cover these games, the lack of any sort of extra pay if you do games with two people or even a solo, and the lack of travel amenities for their national tournaments, things could be better.

    Treatment, personally I haven't faced much, but I have heard people who do from coaches and players who feel entitled because they play MLSN so they get some bad treatment.

    Personally for me it just doesn't really seem like MLS Next is really worth it unless maybe you're needing a U19 match for assessment or something.
     
  11. AZOldRef

    AZOldRef Member

    Chelsea
    United States
    Apr 5, 2021
    Fair points. In these parts most people show up 25-30 minutes before kickoff and pretty much ignore the 60 minute thing. The reporting requirements are odd ... do we really care what minute the substitutions were (and if we do, can the teams report that)?
     
  12. frankieboylampard

    Mar 7, 2016
    USA
    Club:
    Chelsea FC
    Nat'l Team:
    Spain
    at the younger levels they’re suppose to have certain playing time. And at the olders they track the minutes the players are playing.
     
  13. davidjd

    davidjd Member+

    Jun 30, 2000
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I get it, but is it really the referee's job to track this for them?
     
  14. ManiacalClown

    ManiacalClown Member+

    Jun 27, 2003
    South Jersey
    Club:
    Chicago Fire
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    It may no longer be something officials have to worry about at the pro level, but as Law 5 says, the referee is the final authority regarding facts connected with play. I would personally consider who was a player and when to be facts connected with play, but your milage may vary.
     
  15. frankieboylampard

    Mar 7, 2016
    USA
    Club:
    Chelsea FC
    Nat'l Team:
    Spain
    It’s in the laws. We determine when a substitute becomes a player and when they become a substituted player.
     
  16. Gary V

    Gary V Member+

    Feb 4, 2003
    SE Mich.
    We determine that. But do we record and report that?
     
  17. ManiacalClown

    ManiacalClown Member+

    Jun 27, 2003
    South Jersey
    Club:
    Chicago Fire
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    If the competition authority requests it, I don't see why not.
     
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  18. davidjd

    davidjd Member+

    Jun 30, 2000
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I'm sure this is somewhat common for subs, but there is a line. We also determine what is a foul and what is not. We don't record and report every foul; or cornerkick for that matter.
     
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  19. socal lurker

    socal lurker Member+

    May 30, 2009
    I think the line is what the folks paying the check decide it is . . .
     
  20. Law5

    Law5 Member+

    Mar 24, 2005
    Beaverton OR
    Dumb 2CT? High school coach gets a caution for a player with jewelry. Twenty minutes later, he's complaining, at length, about a no call and gets cautioned for dissent, sent for 2CT. Dude, did you forget that earlier caution?
     
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  21. DefRef

    DefRef Member

    Jul 3, 2017
    Storrs CT
    This is an assigning bad story. For the 2nd time in 3 weeks, we have medium/heavy rain on a Saturday. So most, but not all of the games I assigned are being cancelled. And of course, it is not raining enough to make it a blanket cancel everything. Instead, I have to do this on a game by game basis. Which means I have been glued to my computer and phone since 7am. And this requires undoing the work I spent a ton of time this week doing.

    And this is week 1 of Cup matches, so those are all getting played come hell or literally high water.

    Kids probably don't want to play. Refs don't want to be out in it.

    I know this is the nature of the gig, but it is so disheartening. Like accidentally knocking a complicated jigsaw puzzle on the floor before you have finished it. :confused:
     
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  22. ManiacalClown

    ManiacalClown Member+

    Jun 27, 2003
    South Jersey
    Club:
    Chicago Fire
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I'm not the assignor, but we've got one club here where I live that decided they needed to check their fields at 8am while literally every other game not on turf cancelled yesterday. I appreciate their commitment, but we have exactly one grass field around here that handles rain well, and it's not theirs.

    The tricky thing with a storm system like this is that you're really only worried about the heavy rain plus any danger posed by winds. Lightning isn't completely impossible, especially in the outer fringes, but these aren't big, convective thunderstorms.
     
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  23. Beau Dure

    Beau Dure Member+

    May 31, 2000
    Vienna, VA
    Yeah, I figured we'd have enough rain to risk puddles even on some of our better turf fields, and the wind would just make it ridiculous.
     
  24. Pittsburgh Ref

    Pittsburgh Ref Member+

    Oct 7, 2014
    da 'Burgh
    Similar situation but this citizen managed to secure 2CT during the same stoppage for which he got his first, both dissent. I was literally writing the first caution down and reminding him he was already on a yellow, and he screams "I don't care!" Hallmark's got a card for that, dude.
     
  25. Law5

    Law5 Member+

    Mar 24, 2005
    Beaverton OR
    Wasn't me, but a colleague told how he had a high school boy engaging in dissent over a decision. He just pulls out his yellow card, holds it up and starts writing. The kid is still talking about what a bad decision it was. So this referee says to the kid "Anything else you want to say before I put all of this stuff away?" The player decided to stop.
     

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