What is the highest level match you have ever officiated?

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  1. GearRef

    GearRef Member

    Manchester City
    United States
    Jan 2, 2018
    La Grange Park, Illinois
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I could be considered lucky I guess. I live within an hour of at least 3 DA teams-Sockers FC, Chicago Fire, and Campton United.
     
  2. YoungRef87

    YoungRef87 Member

    DC United
    United States
    Jan 5, 2018
    The only academy team near me is the Washington Spirit at the Maryland Soccerplex (and that’s 45 minutes away).
     
  3. me116

    me116 Member

    Aug 25, 2017
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  4. Noadvantageref

    Noadvantageref New Member

    Barcelona
    United States
    Sep 21, 2017
    Center for presidents cup regionals u-17 boys..
    AR for affiliated adults
    Working on my state badge for the spring. Cal north has a plethora of DA games which are the best we have.
     
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  5. IASocFan

    IASocFan Moderator
    Staff Member

    Aug 13, 2000
    IOWA
    Club:
    Sporting Kansas City
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I have centered mens, u19 state cup qualifying, and juco. I have ARed college games.
     
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  6. RefIADad

    RefIADad Member+

    United States
    Aug 18, 2017
    Des Moines, IA
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Before hanging up the whistle about a decade ago when I had kids too young to even play soccer . . .
    • A couple of high school state tournaments, including a middle on a 3rd place game
    • USSF club regional tournaments
    • One D1 women's center, two Power 5 conference fourth official assignments, and a Power 5 conference AR assignment. Lots of D2 and D3 assignments, including a men's center and several women's centers.
     
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  7. grasskamper

    grasskamper Member

    Feb 22, 2010
    Club:
    FC Barcelona
    CR, el clásico ....in my dream last night. I was good, boy was I good!
     
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  8. Law5

    Law5 Member+

    Mar 24, 2005
    Beaverton OR
    It's called "visualization." :)

    In the old video "Own Goals and Gaffes," if memory serves, after a clip of a forward scoring an absurdly easy goal due to a defender error, the host says, "Whenever I score like that, my wife nudges me and says 'you're making a lot of noise tonight.'"
     
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  9. wh1s+1eR

    wh1s+1eR Member

    Apr 23, 2017
    This very funny question. More proud moment declare to world.
    I answer - CWC final - no really.I not mention FIFA 2018 loudly okay?
    And strong buddies as assitents. No guess which clubs play, but I mention top club from EU, Sud America okay.
     
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  10. frankieboylampard

    Mar 7, 2016
    USA
    Club:
    Chelsea FC
    Nat'l Team:
    Spain
    a FIFA official amongst our ranks. Go figure. Hmm, Faghani or irmatov?
     
  11. wh1s+1eR

    wh1s+1eR Member

    Apr 23, 2017
    You funny man frankieboylampard, not lampard, yes? You make good buddy.
     
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  12. Rufusabc

    Rufusabc Member+

    May 27, 2004
    I AR’d a charity match which featured several French 1998 World Cup Winners. Even in retirement, they still yelled when they thought I was wrong! Henry was crafty, moving on and off several times over a possession.
     
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  13. YoungRef87

    YoungRef87 Member

    DC United
    United States
    Jan 5, 2018
    (I know this should be in a different thread but Indidnt feel like starting a new one)
    Question: Does anyone else get nervous in close, competitive games? I’ve found that I get really nervous because I know a mistake could cost one team the game.

    Unfortunately I’ve gotten into the mentality of being more comfortable when one team is far ahead. I think this is affecting how I call the game. Any suggestions on how to deal with this?
     
  14. code1390

    code1390 Moderator
    Staff Member

    Nov 25, 2007
    Club:
    Tottenham Hotspur FC
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I don't think I get nervous towards the end of a competitive game, but I will become more focused. I make sure I sprint when needed and focus on getting a proper angle on as many decisions as possible. Taking a half a step or moving your head a little bit to give you the best angle can be huge. If there is a penalty shout in the final moments, I want to be close to it so I can make the best decision I can. The team can disagree with the call, but they won't be able to say I was 30 yards away.
     
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  15. socal lurker

    socal lurker Member+

    May 30, 2009
    Don't sweat it. It's pretty normal--players get more nervous in close games, too.

    Get past thinking about mistakes costing teams: no one play (by a ref or a player) decides the game--its the total events of the whole game.

    Just keep your concentration and focus on doing your best. That really all we can ever hope for. Exude confidence in those critical moments, whether you feel confident or not. As you get more experience and confidence, you'll be less nervous.

    (And you would be better off starting a thread as you would be more likely to get more responses, as many won't look at this thread.)
     
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  16. juneau-AK

    juneau-AK Member

    Apr 15, 2017
    Assuming one team far ahead = lop-sided scoreline = blow-out, skills, etc.

    Short answer -- do the complete opposite of your current practice.
    Start a new thread, dont be bashful, reckon that is reflected in your alias.

    Bad things happen when hubris sets in. Use your empathy -- knowing a mistake could cost one team a game -- every match. And you will not go far wrong.

    Why?
    A loss of focus on my part, esp in lop-sided, and a player will get injured, or be retaliated against, or retaliate, are just some of the worse things that could happen.

    And think about this scenario: Do I really want to be on youtube, or whatevah, seen like that?

    How else do I deal with this?
    This is simple. Standard practice is to visit all four corners of the penalty areas at least once during each half, and as required. During blow-outs, I consciously do it twice. Also squeeze in the assistants' triangle. Follow the ball all the way to the goal-line and then signal the goal-kick or corner-kick.

    Before you know it, you will transmongrify to OldRef87!! and be in excellent condition.
     
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