I didn't want to call you out on the public board because I feel sure that you don't appreciate just how mean and inappropriate your use of the word "retarded" is to those who are targeted by the R-word (or the people who love them). So I thought I'd message you privately to shed a little light in your direction. To be 100% crystal clear, the R-word is as offensive as the N-word or any of the other hateful, bigoted words that I'm certain you wouldn't ever dream of using in public. You should read this if you have any questions: http://www.r-word.org/