News: Quaranta: 'I Should Have Been Dead'

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  1. dcuni_ted

    dcuni_ted Member

    Jul 16, 2000
    Virginia
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
  2. rugman

    rugman Member

    Oct 13, 2003
    Annapolis
    Re: Goff- 'I Should Have Been Dead'

    Wow. just catching this story and my first thought is he is too young to have gone thru so much. Boy, it sure does explain a lot. About his attitude then and now. Wow. Just wow.
     
  3. Doctor Woo

    Doctor Woo Member

    Nov 5, 1999
    Newport, OR
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Re: Goff- 'I Should Have Been Dead'

    This is powerful. To his credit we only hear about this now. If he were like some, he would have been trumpeting this as soon as he arrived. I hope and pray his early sobriety can turn into long term sobriety. Didn't folks suspect this a long time ago? I had heard rumors on the boards about him using cocaine a while ago, how did anyone know?

    No wonder he took forever to heal. The fact that he withdrew so badly meant he was really hooked bad. And the fact that suicide looked like an option shows you just how lousy an antidepressant alcohol really is.
     
  4. Reignking

    Reignking Member

    Feb 16, 2005
    Atlanta, GA
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Re: Goff- 'I Should Have Been Dead'

    You might want to change the title -- it sounds like Goff thought Goff should be dead.
     
  5. JeremyEritrea

    JeremyEritrea Member+

    Jun 29, 2006
    Takoma Park, MD
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Re: Goff- 'I Should Have Been Dead'

    Kudos to Santino for getting his life back on track.
     
  6. Sachin

    Sachin New Member

    Jan 14, 2000
    La Norte
    Club:
    DC United
    Re: Goff- 'I Should Have Been Dead'

    Yes... we all need to support him.

    I'm still in shock over the whole thing.
     
  7. CaliManU

    CaliManU New Member

    Jul 4, 2005
    Los Angeles
    Re: Goff- 'I Should Have Been Dead'

    Wow. This is an amazing story. Good for Santino for getting his life together, and getting and staying sober.
     
  8. BBBulldog

    BBBulldog Moderator
    Staff Member

    Jun 25, 2004
    Dinamo Zagreb
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    Croatia
    that was brave :)
     
  9. autogolazzo

    autogolazzo Member+

    Mar 4, 2007
    Wow.

    This makes me appreciate Tino's resurgence evne more.

    Congrates on kicking the drugs and geting back in form - We love you, man.
     
  10. MattMathai

    MattMathai BigSoccer Supporter

    Jun 28, 2004
    Annapolis
    Great story of some terrible times in the life of a young man. I wish Santino the best.

    I'm very grateful that we have the kind of people in our front office who can look beyond what happens on the field. Their willingness to give him a second chance says a lot. His willingness to work hard in return is apparent.
     
  11. Hedbal

    Hedbal Member+

    Jul 31, 2000
    DC
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    My volunteer work puts me in contact with many people who have been addicted to alcohol and/or drugs, and I can tell you that those who admit to the problem and seek help (knowing from sad experience that they can't solve their problem alone) show an enormous inner strength that those of us who don't have these issues can scarcely imagine. Santino isn't "cured," and I think he knows that, so he has to exhibit that strength all the time. It's incumbent on those of us who love DC United to give him our full, and vocal, support, so that this story will have a happy ending.
     
  12. seahawkdad

    seahawkdad Spoon!!!

    Jun 2, 2000
    Lincoln, VA
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Amen to that, brother.
     
  13. sch2383

    sch2383 New Member

    Feb 14, 2003
    Northern Virginia
    I really don't know how to react to this. He is certainly taking a brave step forward by putting it out there.
     
  14. onefineesq

    onefineesq Member+

    Sep 16, 2003
    Laurel, MD
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I had heard whispers about this, but nothing definitive. Forget soccer. I'm glad that he is getting himself right for his family, which is by far the greater concern. With that being said, I hope he fulfills the potential that everyone knows he has. At this point, he owes it to himself.
     
  15. CrimsonChin00

    CrimsonChin00 New Member

    Aug 8, 2007
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    WOW!!! His adittude has seem alot better since comming back. Just keep at it Tino. I hope he scores a hat trick tommorow, icing on the cake would you say.
     
  16. Sanguine

    Sanguine Member

    Jul 4, 2003
    Reston, VA
    And if he does, I hope he goes home and celebrates it with his wife rather than the way he used to celebrate.

    As long as he remembers that rehab isn't a place you go, but rather the way you need to be all the time, he'll be fine. It's easier said than done, though.
     
  17. Bootsy Collins

    Bootsy Collins Player of the Year

    Oct 18, 2004
    Capitol Hill
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    No kidding. I know I'd feel pretty embarassed; it's a brave thing to put it out there. In fact, part of me wonders if the act of telling everyone about this is itself part of his fight to make sure it doesn't happen again: if he makes sure everyone knows about what happened, it would be a lot harder for him to hide those behaviors in the future -- which is how he wants things to be.
     
  18. tmas

    tmas Member

    Dec 30, 2002
    I agree with Bootsy, it seems like putting this out there in such a way is also a plea for help. His last quote is telling... he knows its not over, but this will help stop it.

    Very, very good piece... really puts what this season must mean for him into perspective.
     
  19. lkeniston

    lkeniston Member

    Mar 20, 2003
    Richmond, Va.
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Explains a lot.

    I only hope he can become as full-time brilliant as those rare flashes he offers.
     
  20. CHICO13

    CHICO13 Moderator
    Staff Member

    Oct 4, 2001
    SECTION 135
    Club:
    The Strongest La Paz
    Nat'l Team:
    Bolivia
    Man, that article stirs up alot of different emotions. I'll just say wow and leave it at that....
     
  21. gocaps

    gocaps Member

    Sep 23, 2000
    With the SEs in 134
    Wow.

    Addiction - especially opiate addiction - is really tough to kick.

    God bless Tino for making the effort to get his life back and also for sharing his story. And God bless DC United for having the class to give him that opportunity.
     
  22. boomersooner027

    May 13, 2004
    Club:
    FC Dallas
    Nat'l Team:
    Bahamas
    Being a huge Texas Rangers fan, I know all about the player with huge potential ruining his life and making the long road back(Josh Hamilton).

    Great story and I wish Santino the best. I'll certainly be cheering him when they come to Dallas.
     
  23. Sanguine

    Sanguine Member

    Jul 4, 2003
    Reston, VA
    It also makes you wonder about the number of other phenoms who flamed out, and wonder if some of them had similar stories that never came out in the press. The only reason this one came to light is Quaranta himself letting it out.
     
  24. sitruc

    sitruc Member+

    Jul 25, 2006
    Virginia
  25. EdsonArantes

    EdsonArantes Member

    Apr 6, 2006
    Barra Brava
    wow. started a thread in MLS section too...I think its a must read for fans all over the league.
     

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