Best Story of the Week - 2019

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  1. Rufusabc

    Rufusabc Member+

    May 27, 2004
    Wow, what a misread by you. First, you have NO experience in what HS officials are dealing with on a daily basis, and second you put a bunch of words into my mouth that I didn’t come close to saying.
     
  2. davidjd

    davidjd Member+

    Jun 30, 2000
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Sorry, not my intent. You are correct I don't have experience being a HS ref. I do have experience playing and know exactly what happened when I did (many, many moons ago). Again, this policy goes beyond soccer and if that's the state of things and everyone accepts it instead of directing rules in in the right direction, then I just think it's a horrible statement on society in general.

    Can you explain what words I put in your mouth? Again, that was not my intent. Maybe you can clarify by what you meant by your statement, "I take great happiness from a coach getting an equipment yellow, because it loads my gun. If that coach makes noise after that yellow, I can easily shut him up by a quick drive by reminder."
     
  3. Rufusabc

    Rufusabc Member+

    May 27, 2004
    Many moons ago is right! If you talk to coaches and admins as I do in two sports, you’ll find that the student-athete is NOT who you remember it to be. Not even close.

    And, an easy yellow to a loud mouthed coach (they exist a LOT in HS) makes my job for the rest of the game fairly easy. He says something, I remind him he’s on a yellow, and poof, my loud mouthed coach turns into Silent Coach. He doesn’t want to get called into the principals office in the morning to explain why he got tossed.
     
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  4. socal lurker

    socal lurker Member+

    May 30, 2009
    The coach is not being punished for what the player did. The coach is being punished for not doing what the coach is required to do under high school rules--and which the coach told the referee he had done. The Coach told the ref that his team was properly equipped and it wasn't true.
     
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  5. GearRef

    GearRef Member

    Manchester City
    United States
    Jan 2, 2018
    La Grange Park, Illinois
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    GREAT story! US Soccer invited me and 2 other refs to do video shooting for the referee development and training videos on YouTube.
     
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  6. SCV-Ref

    SCV-Ref Member

    Spurs
    Australia
    Feb 22, 2018
    Excellent news. Paid?
     
  7. code1390

    code1390 Moderator
    Staff Member

    Nov 25, 2007
    Club:
    Tottenham Hotspur FC
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Are they finally using that 750,000 budgeted for the new online training stuff?
     
  8. GearRef

    GearRef Member

    Manchester City
    United States
    Jan 2, 2018
    La Grange Park, Illinois
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Not positive but I assume not. I’ll already br at the facility that day since I’m doing an ODP showcase there so that’s at least less driving. Facility is about 1.5 hrs away.
     
  9. GearRef

    GearRef Member

    Manchester City
    United States
    Jan 2, 2018
    La Grange Park, Illinois
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Yeah this must be part of that. Also, according to the National Referee who co-runs our youth mentoring program, US Soccer made a bunch of “task forces (his words) and more assistance for youth referees was one of them (or something like that). This guy is on the task force but had nothing to do with this whole video shoot. My best guess is that Pedro Trejo recommended me to the guys since I worked 2 DA games (including my first DA middle) back in September. Guess he was impressed. No clue who the other 2 refs are or if it’s Pedro’s doing, just a theory.
     
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  10. Mi3ke

    Mi3ke Member

    Oct 18, 2011
    New Mexico
    Club:
    DC United
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Never work for free.

    Cheers, Mi3ke
     
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  11. RespectTheGame

    May 6, 2013
    Club:
    Columbus Crew
     
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  12. Beau Dure

    Beau Dure Member+

    May 31, 2000
    Vienna, VA
    Howard Webb's session at the United Soccer Coaches convention was terrific. Should have a story about it at Soccer America soon.
     
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  13. frankieboylampard

    Mar 7, 2016
    USA
    Club:
    Chelsea FC
    Nat'l Team:
    Spain
    Please link it when you finish!
     
  14. ArgylleRef

    ArgylleRef Member

    Jan 23, 2004
    Lansing, KS
    Speaking of the United Soccer Coaches convention, my daughter was selected/recognized as one of the 30 under 30 coaches.
    "The 30 Under 30 Program is a year-long education and mentorship opportunity for a special group of 15 male and 15 female coaches who are leading the way in developing soccer players and enhancing the game."​
    Proud papa here. She did referee for a couple of years and always consults me when faced with odd situations.
     
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  15. tomek75

    tomek75 Member+

    Aug 13, 2012
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    I worked my first Semi-Pro Futsal (National Futsal Premier League) game last Friday in Chicago. It was executed exactly as planed. All 4 of us worked hard and even though it was a blow out, both teams were happy about the quality of the refereeing. I will be doing it again this Saturday in Indy.
     
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  16. Beau Dure

    Beau Dure Member+

    May 31, 2000
    Vienna, VA
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  17. Geko

    Geko Member

    Sacremento Geckos
    United States
    May 25, 2016
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    After coming back from a pretty bad injury last year, good luck to you! Just remember: a couple extra weeks/months not refereeing is better than re-injuring / permanently injuring. Soccer will always be waiting there for you.
     
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  18. Dayton Ref

    Dayton Ref Member+

    May 3, 2012
    Houston, TX
    Club:
    Chicago Fire
    I finally got around to taking my HS test. I passed it with a 90%. Before you scoff, I was working and occasionally would answer a question or two.
     
  19. Law5

    Law5 Member+

    Mar 24, 2005
    Beaverton OR
    Good enough, at least in our state. You get three tries. 75% qualifies you to do high school games (below that, you can only do middle school games) and 90% is required to do playoff games. A frequent problem is guys getting somewhere in the 80's and not bothering to take the test again so they can do playoff games. Then playoff time comes around and the assignor doesn't have enough people with high enough scores to cover all of the games.
     
  20. davidjd

    davidjd Member+

    Jun 30, 2000
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Understood. My point is that the rule seeks to punish the coach as opposed to the player. I have a feeling I'm not the only one who has questioned this line of thinking with HS sports over the years.
     
  21. djmtxref

    djmtxref Member

    Apr 8, 2013
    I asked a coach the usual question “Are your players properly attired?” His response was “they better be or they will run until I’m tired.”

    I think the players are held responsible for their behavior.
     
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  22. Dayton Ref

    Dayton Ref Member+

    May 3, 2012
    Houston, TX
    Club:
    Chicago Fire
    GOOD coaches hold players responsible for their behavior.

    That is true. It is good enough for the playoffs here. I just like to hold myself to a higher standard. I think I scored a 96 last year, with one miss being a uniform thing that I didn't read correctly and the other I missed a "not" in a sentence.
     
  23. ptref

    ptref Member

    Manchester United
    United States
    Aug 5, 2015
    Bowling Green, KY
    Club:
    Manchester United FC
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    Properly attired? Don't you mean properly equipped? There is a difference. To me, attired refers to shirt, shorts, socks. Equipped refers to shoes, shinguards, no jewelry.
     
  24. Bubba Atlanta

    Bubba Atlanta Member+

    Mar 2, 2012
    Yep, Atlanta
    Club:
    Atlanta United FC
    "Properly and legally equipped," if we're quibbling.
     
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  25. Kit

    Kit Member+

    Aug 30, 1999
    Herkimer, NY, USA
    Club:
    Everton FC
    Nat'l Team:
    United States
    In hoser ball, isn't there also something about a single point, an extra player, and speaking French for half the game? Plus I think the coach gets banned from Tim Horton's for a week.
     
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