The team comes to you as has been said.
But I thought I would use this as an excuse to regale a connection between my support of Liverpool, my family and the "Arsenal" coincidences.
Growing up in Liverpool both my Mum and Dad were both Liverpool fans. My Mum does have a brother who supports Everton (he was a twin and wanted to be different than my other Uncle). All of my Dad's family were Reds.
So I had no choice.
More interestingly, my Dad would always tell us the story of the 1950 Cup Final. Liverpool lost to Arsenal 2-0 at Wembley in that final and Liverpool still had not won the FA Cup. In 1950 it was a huge event. Liverpool had not been in the FA Cup final since 1914!! Massive.
He went to the match. He talked about two things. One, the injustice that Bob Paisley had not been picked for the final after scoring in the semis (against Everton!!!) and that in the cup final it rained the whole afternoon and it ruined our footballing style and gave Arsenal an advantage as they were "thugs"!!
Now it's not like my Dad was biased or anything.

He never missed a home match for more than 20 years and despite the fact that he lived less than a mile from Anfield and Goodison, he never, not once, stepped foot inside Goodison. Even for a Derby match.
As an 11 year old kid in school I was invited to go see an England school boy match at Goodison. I never thought much of it, went with the school and had a great old time.
When my Dad found out I had been "in there" I was in serious trouble!!
Roll on 1971, I was seven and Liverpool played Arsenal in the FA Cup final. all those 1950 stories came rolling out again. The even showed footage of the 1950 match on Grandstand during the preview of the cup final. It was raining!!!!
Well you should know that friggin' Charlie George scored in extra time and Arsenal won 2-1. He lay on the Wembley turf with his arms raised behind him with his long hair everywhere. My Mum was screaming at him to get up and get a hair cut. My Dad was livid and some of the Liverpool players were crying after 120 minutes of an exhausting cup final. It had been 0-0 after 90 minutes and then exploded in extra time with 3 goals and Liverpool on the wrong end of the final score.
You would think that would be a turn off rather than an encouraging event. But of course it was encouraging after the 71 Cup Final, Liverpool started winning everything, UEFA Cup twice, countless league championships, FA Cup in 1974 and then in 1977 the European Cup.
And then many years later I was at Hillsborough as many of you know and my own life fell apart witnessing such awful events. We did salvage the FA Cup that year, but Mickey Thomas' goal at Anfield in his "Fever Pitch" moment brought Arsenal the championship. For me looking for solace from my grief from Sheffield with a League title; well that was denied. That was fool's gold anyway. A league title wasn't gonna take that pain away.
Then in 2004, near Thanksgiving, my Dad passed away from Luekemia. I flew home from KC to Liverpool for the funeral and then a couple of days later Liverpool played Arsenal at Anfield. I didn't go, I had my flight back to KC the next day from Gatwick. So I was at my brother's house in Reading and when Mellor's miracle goal went in -- we both said "Dad blew that one in!"
You can't explain what it means to support Liverpool Football Club, you just have to do it.
Now let me tell you about a trip to Rome in 84 or when the wall fell down at Walsall in the League Cup semis ...