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prymetyme
31 Jan 2006, 06:53 PM
Sapph would you recomend sappyness with my situtaion?
Teso Dos Bichos
31 Jan 2006, 07:18 PM
And I'm not gonna post a pic.
Fire Uncle Teso a PM.
To many possible creepy lurkers and stuff.
Denied. :(
Stud83
31 Jan 2006, 07:25 PM
It's funny, cause in high school and college I periodically dated men that weren't good looking, there were so many great guys available that weren't the absolute foxiest, and some of the less good looking guys I went with were the best boyfriends.
Yeah I knew a guy in college who was barely 5'6'', was really thin, had pimples on a regular basis, and over 3 years that I knew him, he managed to go out with some really beautiful girls. :eek: The moral is - if you are a guy, you always have a chance. Just gotta make up for average looks in other areas ;)
Teso Dos Bichos
31 Jan 2006, 07:25 PM
I hope the delay is because you are searching for a picture, as opposed to me killing the entire thread. :o
EDIT: Disregard. Stud snuck in before my post.
Sapphire
31 Jan 2006, 07:35 PM
First off, be yourself; if you think sappiness is really stupid, don't do it. Barring that, I would recommend being sweet and giving her compliments. I mean, don't lie to her or anything, but tell her you like her hair, or after she laughs tell her she has a nice smile, or if she's wearing new clothes tell her they look cool, or whatever. Just go out of your way to occasionally say nice things and make her feel good. I can't speak for all women, but a small compliment goes a loooong way in my house. At my high school, there was a student group that sold carnations on Valentines day -- if you can do something like that for her, do it. (You know, don't be a stalker -- do something small and see how she reacts.) It's a good way to let her know you like her.
The problem is it's risky, I mean, you are basically putting up a flashing sign that says "I really really like you" and if she doesn't feel the same way you might get rejected. Plus, you guys are young and she might not know how to react to direct compliments, she might not have received one from a guy she liked before (this is an advantage for you, but there may some ackwardness). But if you really like her and you're feeling confident, I think you should go for it.
The guys might disagree and tell you to play hard to get or something, but I don't think that works. But that's me and I'm a whole other gender, so . . .
Sapphire
31 Jan 2006, 07:40 PM
I hope the delay is because you are searching for a picture, as opposed to me killing the entire thread. .It's just so hard to find one where I have my clothes on!! :eek: ;) :cool:
SirManchester
31 Jan 2006, 07:45 PM
He's just scared cause of what he said in the end of year thread. He knows I won't forget easily. ;)
Plus, I love sappiness. It's sweet, it makes people feel good, and it doesn't hurt to do or anything. Vermont Red knows the deal; you youngin's should listen to him.
And I'm not gonna post a pic. To many possible creepy lurkers and stuff. I think I'm probably a 7; average to good looking. I really don't care much about looks anyway; mine or anyone else's tbh. It's funny, cause in high school and college I periodically dated men that weren't good looking, there were so many great guys available that weren't the absolute foxiest, and some of the less good looking guys I went with were the best boyfriends. I dated this guy for two years in college--he was overweight, had red curly hair and braces, I had to teach him how to dress, but he was so sweet and funny and he had beautiful eyes, I absolutely adored him. Since I don't really care, I guess the universe decided it would be funny to give me a drop-dead husband -- I'm not complaining or anything, I don't MIND that he's handsome. :)
I think it's a little different with men though; if I remember psych 101 correctly, y'all have a closer connection between visual stimuli and sexual attraction, it's more mental and chemical for women. I don't know if it's that or that you give each other such a hard time for being with an uglier girl, that it's not worth the hassle. Anyway. . . [/tangent--sorry, just ignore me]
Don't worry, I know what to say and what not to say to women. It's all about the rigth combination of nice and domineering. Even you have to admit you like a man who can take control of you at the right time, balance that with the right nice things, and women melt like butter. am i right or am i right? ;)
prymetyme
31 Jan 2006, 07:54 PM
yeah Sapph, I think your right on with the comments, and that I should make a couple and see how she reacts. I dont want to come of wierd, and I dont think it will be awk since were good friends already. Valentines day has never worked out well for me, but maybe this years the year lol
jayro75
31 Jan 2006, 08:19 PM
yeah Sapph, I think your right on with the comments, and that I should make a couple and see how she reacts. I dont want to come of wierd, and I dont think it will be awk since were good friends already. Valentines day has never worked out well for me, but maybe this years the year lol
NOOOOOOOOOO Do not do it on Valentines Day... Do it on a regular day that way it means something and she'll know you care vs. doing it on a day that hallmark and others are telling you to feel a certain way and you could look like you're doing it to have a "valentine"...
prymetyme
31 Jan 2006, 08:22 PM
haha no i wasnt planning to do it on valentines day, i was just thinking that i'd have someone to spend that day with before because past valentines days have sucked.
MtP07
31 Jan 2006, 08:23 PM
Yeah I knew a guy in college who was barely 5'6'', was really thin, had pimples on a regular basis, and over 3 years that I knew him, he managed to go out with some really beautiful girls. :eek: The moral is - if you are a guy with a big dong, you always have a chance. Just gotta make up for average looks in other areas ;)
FYP :p
jayro75
31 Jan 2006, 08:28 PM
FYP :p
Ron Jeremy is a perfect example of this....;)
MtP07
31 Jan 2006, 08:30 PM
MtP07 is a perfect example of this....;)
FYP :D
Teso Dos Bichos
31 Jan 2006, 08:33 PM
It's just so hard to find one where I have my clothes on!! :eek: ;) :cool:
You do not disappoint.
jayro75
31 Jan 2006, 08:33 PM
FYP :D
Obviously the GF disagrees since she's letting you post on BS all night...:p
MtP07
31 Jan 2006, 08:38 PM
Obviously the GF disagrees since she's letting you post on BS all night...:p
She doesn't disagree...she's in grad school and has to study a lot. :(
jayro75
31 Jan 2006, 08:39 PM
She doesn't disagree...she's in grad school and has to study a lot. :(
They all say that.....:p
Teso Dos Bichos
31 Jan 2006, 08:40 PM
I'm not so sure about all of this talking to women 'garbage'. Don't get me wrong, I have a fair number of female friends that I talk to all the time but I've never really had to speak to the ones that I have slept with. That sounds a lot worse than I had intended and, yes, I did get their names and ages beforehand (both lies :o ) but I seem to have got stuck in the too good a friend cycle. Metrosexual, if you will. *sigh*
billyireland
31 Jan 2006, 08:45 PM
I love every bone in your body, especially mine!
Thats a classic :D
That's a face-slapper, is what that is. ;)
I hate chatup lines since they are rarely funny and never work over here unless they're original. I have only used them on occasion, but one girl I was going out with for a good while, I met by pulling a balaclava over my head when she was at the ATM at night and asking her if she knew when the bank was opening (she knew some of my friends, so it wasn't too out of left field. :D
MtP07
31 Jan 2006, 08:45 PM
They all say that.....:p
Unfortunately she makes me help her study...on top of me working til 5, going to the kids basketball game that I coach, cook dinner and clean up. Luckily that was only tonight because that's not how I usually roll...