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antifan
22 Aug 2005, 05:13 PM
10 years, wow. I thought I had it rough with 7. The part that I'm struggling with is two-fold. You know how some people just feel like "home"? That's how I felt with my ex, and still feel that way when I'm around her today. I know that I should spend less time with her, but it just feels safe & calm when I'm with her, like "home."
The other thing is that despite what everyone says, I suddenly feel like I'm old. It never was an issue before, because it didn't seem like a race against time. Now, I have this strange sensation to hurry up and find someone, whether it be my ex, or someone new. At the same time, I know that I should take more time to just be by myself, as this most recent delve into the dating world proved.
My head and my heart are both just really ********ed right now, and stuff that used to distract me (Arsenal, books, music, movies) don't do the trick like they used to.
Have you forgotten how much fun it is owning a new home? ;) :D
surfcam
22 Aug 2005, 05:15 PM
I'm getting a head rush just looking at that. LOL
As Cam and GP chant "Drink! Drink! Drink!" :D
surfcam
22 Aug 2005, 05:16 PM
Have you forgotten how much fun it is owning a new home? ;) :D
Post of the Day!!! :D :D
Gunner Phan
22 Aug 2005, 05:17 PM
I'm getting a head rush just looking at that. LOL
are you sure you just didn't pop your ambien's a little early today, Ash? ;)
Bighorn
22 Aug 2005, 05:20 PM
Hey, Ryan.... got any Pete Yorn in that live cd collection of yours?
Rick B
22 Aug 2005, 06:25 PM
10 years, wow. I thought I had it rough with 7. The part that I'm struggling with is two-fold. You know how some people just feel like "home"? That's how I felt with my ex, and still feel that way when I'm around her today. I know that I should spend less time with her, but it just feels safe & calm when I'm with her, like "home."
The other thing is that despite what everyone says, I suddenly feel like I'm old. It never was an issue before, because it didn't seem like a race against time. Now, I have this strange sensation to hurry up and find someone, whether it be my ex, or someone new. At the same time, I know that I should take more time to just be by myself, as this most recent delve into the dating world proved.
My head and my heart are both just really ********ed right now, and stuff that used to distract me (Arsenal, books, music, movies) don't do the trick like they used to.
I completly agree. The past two seasons I went to every away game with her and most home games. Really and truely I just don't feel like going to the football at the moment. Nothing it seems can distract me for longer than a couple of hours at the moment. But I have the same stupid feeling I "should" be with someone. Most of my friends are and I feel Im old at 26. Crazy, utterly crazy.
Claus KJ
22 Aug 2005, 06:32 PM
Sounds like a plan!! Just glad the footy season is back - though not happy with a 2 and a half week break so early!!!! Now Im so looking forward to the CL draw on Thursday - come on some tiny Eastern European team!! :D
I'm still hoping that Brondy qualifies and then are drawn in the same group as Arsenal. It'd give me a chance to see Arsenal live fairly cheap and then as a bonus laughing repeatedly at Brondy everytime they get thrashed by a decent European team.
KJ
antifan
22 Aug 2005, 07:05 PM
I completly agree. The past two seasons I went to every away game with her and most home games. Really and truely I just don't feel like going to the football at the moment. Nothing it seems can distract me for longer than a couple of hours at the moment. But I have the same stupid feeling I "should" be with someone. Most of my friends are and I feel Im old at 26. Crazy, utterly crazy.
Did your ex have any cute friends? If so, i recommend sleeping with one of them. This can bring a real sense of closure to a relationship. ;) :D
HighburyGoon
22 Aug 2005, 07:12 PM
Did your ex have any cute friends? If so, i recommend sleeping with one of them. This can bring a real sense of closure to a relationship. ;) :D
See, that doesn't work as well as everyone says it does. It just made me miss my ex more... groan.
Rick - You and I definitely have to have some drinks when I come over/you come over here!
Rewinder
22 Aug 2005, 07:19 PM
See, that doesn't work as well as everyone says it does. It just made me miss my ex more... groan.
Rick - You and I definitely have to have some drinks when I come over/you come over here!
Just stress yourself out over something else like work, or something else where not giving your full attention could hurt you - do that long enough and you will start forgetting.
antifan
22 Aug 2005, 07:21 PM
See, that doesn't work as well as everyone says it does. It just made me miss my ex more... groan.
Rick - You and I definitely have to have some drinks when I come over/you come over here!
At least you tried! :D
Seriously though, both of you guys sound depressed. My advice is start working out on a regular basis. Get at least 45 minutes of excercise every day, even if its just a brisk walk. The more you do it the better you'll feel. You'll also look better and feel more confident, which will attract more chicks. Trust me, i started working out regularly less than a year ago, and recently, every girl i meet is all over me. I'm telling you guys, you can either hit the gym and come back strong or else just wallow in misery for a few years and hope that some girl feels sorry for you. Take your pick.
antifan
22 Aug 2005, 07:23 PM
Later guys, i have to go swim some laps. My hot blonde neighbor is picking me up at 6. :)
deeplennon
22 Aug 2005, 07:26 PM
I'm telling you guys, you can either hit the gym and come back strong or else just wallow in misery for a few years and hope that some girl feels sorry for you. Take your pick.
I think we should start a "dear anti" column on Big Soccer. Bulls--t free and to the point relationship advice for weenie men.
Gunner Phan
22 Aug 2005, 07:36 PM
I think we should start a "dear anti" column on Big Soccer. Bulls--t free and to the point relationship advice for love torn men.
yeah...something tells me him and feej are the "playa's" of the OT.
all I can think of right now is:
a. Anti is absolutely correct
b. how much "Every Rose Has It's Thorn" is appropriate right now
c. how much more appropriate your post is, Deep, since I phixed it for you...;)
d. it concerns me Rick alluded to not really being into football right now...thanks for ruining AW's team spirit, Rick :rolleyes: ;)
Gunner Phan
22 Aug 2005, 07:40 PM
Hey, Ryan.... got any Pete Yorn in that live cd collection of yours?
hmmmm....I really don't believe I do. In fact, I can't recall ever seeing a torrent of his. I'll keep my eye out though. Anything other bands/artists your thinking of? :)
Rick B
22 Aug 2005, 07:58 PM
See, that doesn't work as well as everyone says it does. It just made me miss my ex more... groan.
Rick - You and I definitely have to have some drinks when I come over/you come over here!
Nah she doesn't. They are either ugly or taken.
Sounds good Mike. When you come over I'll arrange a few drinks out in London.
Rick B
22 Aug 2005, 08:00 PM
c. how much more appropriate your post is, Deep, since I phixed it for you...;)
d. it concerns me Rick alluded to not really being into football right now...thanks for ruining AW's team spirit, Rick :rolleyes: ;)
c) i agree the fix is better
d) Yeah, it really bugs me. Just wasn't interested at Newcastle. I'm probably going to go to most of the home matchs but I think I'm going to give a lot of the away games a miss this season.
Bluto11
22 Aug 2005, 08:10 PM
Later guys, i have to go swim some laps. My hot blonde neighbor is picking me up at 6. :)
i should jump in a pool one of these days. swimming alone is so freaking boring.
antifan
22 Aug 2005, 08:15 PM
i should jump in a pool one of these days. swimming alone is so freaking boring.
Really? it doesn't bore me. I just count laps and strokes in my head to keep busy. That and glare at the parents who let their little brats get in my way when i'm swimming. :D
jatm516
22 Aug 2005, 08:16 PM
c) i agree the fix is better
d) Yeah, it really bugs me. Just wasn't interested at Newcastle. I'm probably going to go to most of the home matchs but I think I'm going to give a lot of the away games a miss this season.
Wow, this sounds bad. I think an intervention is in order. Rick, since we would not want you to go to the games alone, I will volunteer to go to the games with you. I know...it's a sacrifice...I am just THAT nice. ;)