So my GF is pregnant, and we're not married. It's not really an "accident", though it wasn't planned, we've lived together now for over 2 years and have talked about kids for at least year now, we both want kids. We're both in our mid thirties so it's probably time. Our issue...do we get married or not. We have not planned to. I do understand many of the legal benefits of being a married parent, we're undecided about whether we want to give up those benefits, meager as they can be. Our families would probably be the primary reason to get married, we both have conservative parents.