My daughter is participating in a soccer tournament this weekend and is experiencing an extreme lack of confidence. She is guest playing with another team (a team she has actually played with several times) but when she's out there, she is tentative and it seems like an invisible hand is holding onto her, holding her back - NOT GOOD for a forward. I know exactly what she is capable of doing but for some reason when she is out of her comfort zone (her own team) she freezes up and does not look at all like the striker who scores most of the goals for her team. I am trying to use positive reinforcement, reminding her of great goals she scored and how she has battled back after a rough foul ... when we talked about it in the car, she actually realizes her problem. I just do not know what to say, is there anything I can say to help her get her confidence back? Or must I realize there's nothing I can do, she has to do it for herself?