I used to listen to Tom Leykis a few years back for a few years. He is a radio talk show host. He has Leykis 101, which is a great service for young men. I don't subscribe to leykis 101 but agree with it 100%. He has been married a few times and has wisdom to share. His slogan is "getting tail for less," or something like that. He has epic arguments with women on his show. This thread isn't for his show, but for guys that may have a question to other guys about dating. Also, one can share horror dating stories and wisdom on such experiences. Here's where you can listen to his shows. He goes live M-F at 3pm-7pm Pacific, but you can listen anytime here for free. Blowmeuptom.com Here are his leykis 101 rules: 1. NEVER, EVER date a single mother. 2. Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing. 3. Don't ask a women what she wants to do. 4. Never tell a women how much money you make. 5. Don't EVER date co-workers! 6. Never answer the phone on the weekend. 7. Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. 8. NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. 9. If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on. 10. No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out! 11. Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are 25 or really ready to settle down.