Boppero presents - The Doña Thread Vol III

Discussion in 'Mexico NSR' started by El Chompiras, Aug 20, 2010.

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  1. Eyedea900 New Member

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    Me either tbh, =/ only girls from Philippines but meh. I want a Japanese chick
          
  2. Rebaño_Sagrado Member+

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    We not getting the whole story here.

    Are you marrying a minor? Do her "brother" and her share housing?

    Does she have kids?

    Is she from the midwest or the south?
  3. Carcacha Member+

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    so i found out my fack buddy has been hookin up with some other fool. so i played victim and now shes supposedly hurt

    fdack the bitch
  4. Rebaño_Sagrado Member+

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    Don't step into the kitchen if you can't handle the heat.
  5. Mr. Pink Member

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    We're the same age, her and her brother don't share housing. She doesn't have any kids. She's from Mexico so I'm going to say, South.
  6. Piedraias Member+

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    what's the big deal?

    why would he be against her marriage?
  7. Piedraias Member+

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    [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQh112HQsoE&NR=1"]YouTube - Percy Sledge - When a Man Loves A Woman[/ame]
  8. beat junky Member+

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    Probably because they're too young to get married.
  9. Mr. Pink Member

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    That could be the case, I mean I'm 22, shes 21. But from what I understand is that he's very jealous. He doesn't even want her having a boyfriend. Dude asked her to take down some pics she put up where we come out together. I don't know why.
  10. Of_Wires_And_Birds Member

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    Dude is obviously too uptight, why would he be jealous either way?. Sounds like this guy's just a douchebag if he doesn't want y'all to marry.
  11. Horsehead Super Moderator

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    There's still something you're not telling us. Spit it out.
  12. Mr. Pink Member

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    I guess the only thing that I see that I may not be saying is that mostly all of her sisters have had failed marriages and he's the only male in their family?
  13. chiva_guero BigSoccer Supporter

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    So, act ask him for her hand ... but don't overdo it! More like let him know your plans and that you'd love his blessing. But at the end of the day, he's not her dad.

    Let Love Rule

    [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BjORsVAmTwg"]YouTube - Lenny Kravitz - Let Love Rule (Justice Remix)[/ame]

    Love is gentle as a rose
    And love can conquer any war
    It's time to take a stand
    Brothers and sisters join hands

    We got to let love rule
    Let love rule

    We got to let love rule
    Let love rule

    Love transcends all space and time
    And love can make a little child smile
    Can't you see this won't go wrong
    But we got to be strong
    We can't do it alone

    We got to let love rule
    Let love rule

    We got to let love rule
    Let love rule
  14. Mr. Pink Member

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    The thing that's really getting to me though is the simple fact that she doesn't want to tell him. At first it was cause he was sending her money to go to school so she didn't want to risk him finding out and him stop sending the money. But it's been a while since he last sent her and she told me that he isn't planning on sending her anymore. (Nothing to do with the fact we're getting married.) She just keeps telling me she's scared he'll stop having contact with her. She doesn't want to tell him at all, she prefers he find out after we're married. :confused:
  15. Rebaño_Sagrado Member+

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    It doesn't make sense why she would hide her wedding from her brother.

    Sounds like some family issues that need to be addressed.
  16. Horsehead Super Moderator

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    Ahhh, there it is. :D He's been supporting her in some way and she has accepted the money, which gives him a bit of power for better or worse. He's probably hoping she doesn't screw up and waste her chance at an education. He may indeed be a jealous brother but this is why he may feel he has a extra say in the matter beyond a normal brother protectiveness. It's a common feeling to want your siblings to make something special of themselves. For sisters not to get pregnant and married so early to some bum (and they all seem like bums :p), putting dreams aside and ending up a taking care of kids, working a crap job wondering what her life would have been. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being a housewife but when it isn't planned to happen so young, it can be very difficult and disappointing for a woman no matter how much she loves her kids and husband.

    Big brothers can be bullies when they don't approve of a boyfriend/fiance, I bet that is what she's scared of. Sometimes this is good and protects us from our worst instincts and we thank them later in life. Sometimes it's totally inappropriate and they need to let go. Are there other sisters in their family who ran afoul? What is the story of their mother? Are the women in their family expected to have big careers?

    Maybe if you & her explain to him what your plans are to continue your educations and that you are strategizing for a quality future he will come to accept without too much drama. Or there may be drama at first but when he sees you guys are all good, he'll come around.

    It's possible he's just a jerk brother and is just being a ass but a good brother might also put this kind of pressure on a sister thinking that it is for her own good. If you and her are tight, you'll get through this.



    It's weird, writing this out has made me kinda wish I had an older brother who had chased off some of my early boyfriends. :(
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  17. TallTowerMan BigSoccer Supporter

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    I can be your big brother Horsey:)....where is that boyfriend of yours?:D
  18. metalmaster Member+

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    Dude has mental problems if he is that possessive. I say fack what he was to say, just give him the news and he can take it which ever way he wants.
  19. Hecho en Chivas Member+

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    LOL, pretty funny story

    so i go out with a chick on 3 dates, and everything seems to be going very well - have fun, make her laugh, have similar taste in music, movies, and show, etc.

    well, then it turns out she's Christian and she invited me to hang out with her church. i said no, and now all of a sudden she's too busy to do anything :rolleyes:

    oh well, it would have been pretty difficult to seal the deal if you know what i mean
  20. Perndog2006 Member+

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    3 dates and u didnt hit it? u getting rusty :D
  21. Hecho en Chivas Member+

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    got to 2nd base

    and technically, it was only 2 dates because first time we went out it was sort of a group thing

    but whatever

    once she told me she was Christian i knew it was going downhill
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  22. Perndog2006 Member+

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    those are the best dood. sometimes worth all the work.

    may u learn ur lesson. if u dig the girl, try something once, that way you have leverage in why you dont want to do it again ;)
  23. Hecho en Chivas Member+

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    that's true

    however, my ex is Christian so i already had an idea where things were going

    do not want to walk down that path again

    one time was enough, LOL
  24. Perndog2006 Member+

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    well from you still asking her out and then ignoring you by telling you she is too busy sounds like you were still interested. or did not mind that path again

    but now that you got the cold shoulder now one time was enough :D

    every christian girl is different man.
  25. DGreat Moderator

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    bam wham thank you ma'am
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